When affection becomes pressure or control

A romantic introduction does not make threats, exploitation or coercion acceptable. If you are worried about yourself or another person in Australia, you can ask for help without investigating the situation alone.

Use a service suited to the situation

For immediate danger, call 000. The Australian Federal Police provides information and reporting routes for human trafficking and modern slavery. 1800RESPECT provides support for domestic, family and sexual violence.

Describe what is happening, not what you can prove

Concerns may involve control over movement, money or documents, isolation or threats. Explain what you have noticed to an appropriate service. Do not put yourself at risk to collect evidence or publicly identify a person you believe is being exploited.

Protect the person while obtaining help

If it is safe, retain relevant messages and dates privately. Consider whether a shared device or monitored account makes contacting support risky. Avoid publishing someone's location, identity or health details.

Report a concerning profile through official PositiveSingles support, but do not wait for a platform response in an emergency. The Australian dating safety guide provides related resources.