Finding a connection that fits your part of Australia

Living with herpes does not define the relationship you can have. You may want a partner, friendship or a place to read before starting a conversation. Begin with what you enjoy and the time you can realistically give another person.

Choose a journey, not just a state

In Sydney, a match across the city can involve more travel than a map suggests. In Melbourne, name a broad area and discuss a meeting point that works for both people. Brisbane and the Gold Coast are not interchangeable locations. Agree on a comfortable journey rather than assuming everyone in the same state is nearby.

Make regional and interstate plans manageable

For readers around Perth, Adelaide, Hobart, Darwin, Canberra or smaller communities, the right distance is personal. Start with a call if a first meeting would require a long drive or flight. Confirm both local times for interstate calls, and revisit the plan when clocks change. Shift work and caring responsibilities deserve space in the conversation.

Share at a pace you can sustain

Discuss boundaries and health questions before sexual contact, without publishing identifying medical records on a profile. The ten-question reflection can help you consider privacy, energy and practical plans. For personal clinical questions, use Australian care resources.

Continue to PositiveSingles for accounts and member searches, then set Australia and your state or territory on the official platform.